These days are tough. Virus running rampant, social unrest and our own personal struggles with life, right? Where do you turn? The obvious answer for the readers of this blog would be: Music, of course! While that is the answer expected here given the context and content, can we get more specific for a moment?
I might pop off the answer that I turn to my guitar when I get down (and I often use that response). That’s the cool answer and that does happen but it is not actually what usually happens. I enjoy taking walks with my dog to cool off from a heated argument or from reading stuff on social media that made me crazy or even the news. I started taking walks in my teen years to take a break from school pressures and all that comes with being a teenager in America. Cycling was also a great outlet for me and I spent many afternoons pedaling away my worries.
The Songs in My Head…
Something that happens in the background, in my thoughts, is a particular song comes to mind. Sometimes I make up a tune on the spur of the moment but mostly it is something I have heard that had the right lyric or mood to suit the occasion. It could be something that allows me to express anger or depression and sadness. Many times, it is an encouraging song that would lift my spirits. Consider the following:
- Don’t Look Back – Boston
- Hold Your Head Up – Argent (quoted from this one recently)
- Fight the Good Fight – Triumph
Growing Up
Growing up, I roomed with a younger brother. We got into scrapes with other kids from another neighborhood and the typical neighborhood bully. One night, he intimated that he was scared sometimes and wondered how I dealt with it. I told him I had a soundtrack running in my head and that would give me the strength to deal even though I was scared. Being a tall kid, I was a target for the local bullies and found myself having to defend myself on occasion. Music, from an early age, was my go-to for strength and encouragement. I never liked to fight but would not back down when challenged.
Later when I had gotten a paper route for a local freebie paper, my younger brother helped me deliver a couple of times. He would flip over the fences into the next yard singing “Taking my time/Just moving along!” from Boston’s song, Long Time. I think he caught on 😉
Today…
It’s been many years since those days but I still have that soundtrack going. The fights are different and more existential than those days but I still derive strength from music much in the same way. The cool thing now is that I can actually play those songs ringing in my head on my guitar. Not perfectly but good enough to imagine myself in front of an arena blasting with a stack of Marshalls behind me. Retreating into my music room and cranking with headphones on (gotta think of the wife who is not a fan of loud 😉 has been a time of solace for me. My wife can tell a difference as I come out buoyed and with a smile on my face.
Let these times drive you to music. Learn to play your guitar so you can make something beautiful or crush the blues with heavy riffing. Anyway you can, do not let the music die within you. Let it out and express yourself!